my bf really wants to take me skydiving, but i have a huge phobia my parachute wont ejaculate and ill hit the earth like a meteor. but i dont want to think of me as a boring person :(

Hi all, a friend just showed me this site the other day and I love it!!

32/F/US here. I'm a Sex Therapist - this doesn't mean that I have sex with my clients, it means that I provide therapy for sexual issues. I deal with all kinds of things from erectile dysfunction to sex addiction and even sex phobias.

I've always been a very sexually open person and so I've worked out some unorthodox special treatments for some of my clients. Many of the men I have been with like hearing about some of the crazier things I've done to help my clients, so I figured I would share them here too! Let me know what you think.

To give you an idea of what I look like, I am a light-skinned slim latina, 5'8", hair is blonde right now, big brown eyes, 32B and a small ass (sorry, booty-lovers!)

I'll start with the time I let one of my clients grope and finger me.

I'll call Sam. Sam was 29 years old and came to me because he was very shy and felt uncomfortable around women. I could see right away that he felt uncomfortable with me but I did a pretty good job of getting him to open up on his first few visits.

I learned a lot about him in the first month. He explained to me that he had always been shy so he hadn't pursued women when he was younger, and as he got older he felt more and more embarrassed about his situation and was now too uncomfortable to approach sex.

It didn't take long before we both felt comfortable around each other, so I offered to help him with his problems by exposure, and we worked out a plan for his treatment.

I would lie on the desk in my office and allow Sam to explore my body with his hands, to get more comfortable with womens' bodies.

I decided to dress very casually going forward, just jeans and a t-shirt. The next week, he was feeling a little uncomfortable with the whole thing. He felt my body through my clothes for about half of the session and I encouraged him to explore and do what he wanted with his hands, instead of worrying about what I wanted him to do. I fully expected him to take my clothes off, but he didn't. He spent a lot of time cupping my tits and my ass and rubbing his hand over my stomach. It was kind of sweet how innocent it was, but not very exciting. About halfway through the session he asked if we could finish the session by talking and so we finished just like any other time.

The next week, I wanted to push him a little further so I put on very non-threatening, simple underwear. When it was time to get on to the table, I stripped down to my bra and panties and he blushed. He told me he had never watched a girl take her clothes off and I encouraged him to touch me. He ended up spending the entire session exploring me this time. He touched me all over, my face and my neck, my chest, my shoulders, legs, everywhere, but he mostly avoided my pubic area. This time, I started talking him through it. Encouraging him to explore, telling him to take what he wanted. Toward the end I very gently grabbed his hand and he pretty much froze up. I placed his hand against my vagina and let him feel it through my panties. I held him there for a moment, and he took his hand away as soon as I let go.

Again I wanted to push it a little further on the third week. When he came in I asked how he was feeling and it sounded like he was doing much better. He still didn't feel super comfortable but this time he was at least excited to get to the touching. I asked if he was ready to take my clothes off, and he was. I stood up and let him take my shirt and pants off from behind which he did without really hesitating. I had to encourage him to get my bra off, but once he did I turned around and showed him his first pair of tits. His eyes lit up! It made me feel strangely great about myself haha.

The whole thing started to make me feel oddly sexual at that point. I turned around and bent over, pulling my panties down for him before getting up on the desk. He immediately started grabbing my tits and spent a very long time squeezing them and playing with my nipples. I didn't want him to focus on boobs so again I gently grabbed his hand. I placed a couple of his fingers on my bare pussy. He froze up again and didn't make a move, so I shoved one of his fingers in to me, and he just kind of sat there in silence. It took some encouraging to get him to feel around inside of me, but once he got started I showed him where my g-spot was, and then the clit, and explained how to stimulate them.

That was all I had planned for, but he was getting much braver and asked if he could try to make me cum. Rightfully I knew I had already gone too far and I should say no, but the whole thing had me awkwardly turned on, so I told him that if a girl was as wet as I was, they probably want him to make them cum.

He played with my pussy for a while and I walked him through it. We got a little too in to it and I completely missed the fact that his session ended (luckily no appointment afterward!) but he made me cum eventually! I put on as much of a show of it for him as I could, but nearby offices were occupied so I couldn't get very loud. We ended the session about 10 minutes late.

After I came I talked to him about confidence and let him know that the only thing he had to do to be successful with women was to stop being so shy, and that when he was with a woman he should do what he wanted to do instead of worrying about whether they'll like it - we'll let you know! Right after I said that, he licked my juices off his fingers, so I think he kind of got the point :)

That was the last time we did anything like that and he cut back on his number of sessions but the next time I saw him I confirmed that he had officially lost his virginity! Case closed! :)