I've never tried anal beads. My husband gives me oral sometimes but I just come like normal; it's probably like a 5-second thing at most (the orgasm).
I really wish I had a Sybian or could try one. I just found out about them recently and I am curious what it would be like. I've never experienced that long drawn-out orgasm and I would looove to.
> If you're afraid to tell your husband about your sexual desires, that doesn't bode well for your marriage.
That's what scares me but I'm not sure what to do about it. I feel like he would feel like my (new) desires are offensive.
And sometimes I feel guilty, like maybe if I had less free time these things wouldn't happen. When I worked full-time my mind was always on my job and I feel like I was happier, but we both agreed this was best.
And there's hundreds of other things I dream up but have no idea how to approach them. And yet I still feel some semblance of actual love for my husband and wouldn't want to disappoint him by bringing them up...