as i confess i hope to get some advice in return since deep down i am a pervert so you may just relate. i'm a 27 year old single female and i am fucking two guys. i met guy #1 ten years ago, and we have been fucking on and off in a very open fwb relationship. i will call him 'Daddy', and that basically sums up our relationship, especially the sexual side. he is 50.
he is not my real father, and no, i was never abused as a child. not by him anyway. my real father is awesome and we get along fine. anyway things with daddy are mellow, we only see each other about one weekend a month but that works for us both. he knows i see other guys, and he knows about guy #2, whom i will call Simon.
i met Simon 8 months ago at a church function. i think he has amazing husband material.
except for the fact that he is really really lame in bed. which i can maybe fix and hey seriously i don't mind a challenge. but honestly over the years i have been very spoiled sexually. not only by Daddy but by various boyfriends and lovers.
Simon is very mechanical and awkward/uncomfortable about sex so far. all three times that he has been brave enough to make a move on me. i foresee a lot of vibrator time in my future if i keep dating this guy.
in the meantime, i suppose i am still just a slut, since i am very much Daddys little slut. no one makes me gush like this guy though. the sex is just insanely good and the bond is precious.
so.....there ya go.....i'm a whore !
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so stay a whore, enjoy an active sex life and work on simon, if he cannot cut the mustered after a bit of this is how you do this and so forth cut him loose, there are a lot of guys out there who are marriage material
I know Simon might be "husband material" but, something you should keep in mind is that there is a great possibility you may not be able to "train" him as well as you think. Life is too short to be with anyone who is lame in bed because there are too many people out there that are looking for someone who ARE great in bed. While you may have other options now, consider yourself with this man ten years from now where his sex drive isn't where it is now. It won't be so cute and your toy will only give so much pleasure no matter how well you use it.
I got with a girl who had a low sex drive and everything was PERFECT, except that. Never again. I spent four years with her and it was something I thought we'd work through. No. Not a chance. My advice... find a man that satisfies you in and out of bed, and without the reliance on outside lovers. Or find a guy who is poly who doesn't care if you fuck around but is still your primary go to cock.
Take it from me, life is too short to be with someone who isn't matched in the sexual department. Thank me later.
hopefully i am not just projecting but have you told "simon" how you feel. i suggest handing him a note or something - specifically laying out what you want and need.(see i how did that... your wants and needs...get it... cause i am so witty... Any black guy, chin up fella... type it out if you want anonymity ... but do something or you'll be stuck at same place.
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Handing him a note, what are we in grade school?
She can wish that Simon will be the man of her dreams but she's delusional and wishful. He never will but she's too naive to see it. Years later she'll realize it but not while she's with him and looking at him with rose colored glasses.
I'm in a similar situation right now where I am "simon". I love this girl and we have agood time when were together, but she always runs off after a day or two back to the same guy. She always complains about him and how she hates him, but goes to him anyways. then she will call me and ask me to help,bring her something, or ask to come over. ill drop what im doing to help her. i0 hate what she does but I love her and want to be there for her. my heart aches for her right now
Simon needs a girl just as awkward as he is. Just look for someone else. I dated a super experienced girl and it was nice but I never fell in love until I met the geeky, lights off, socially autistic girl who would become my wife. Just find some super perv like you and save yourself and simon lots of future grief.
