Wife getting a little too attached to her bull I feel left out. It should be only physical and nothing more, but I think she uses her feeling. He's a tourist, and she was his tour guide. They had sex couple of months ago and they keep texting and sexting afterward. Now this guy is coming back again to have sex with her and she seems very happy about that. I tried to look okay about that but I feel a little bit sad and threatened that this guy is coming back into our lives..
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12 Nov 2025 6:12AM
If she doesn't let you lick it when she gets back then she's full on cheating.
Of course she has feelings for him.
Lick her before she goes to see him, too. It helps.
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12 Nov 2025 6:23AM
Well I'm a very open minded person but I don't really like that my wife grows feeling on another man. If it's only physical then I'm still okay.
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12 Nov 2025 10:51AM
You can't expect her to have no feelings, otherwise she wouldn't even enjoy the sex. It can be purely physical and she can still be excited for that moment without it having implications about how she "feels" about him. Its normal to grow some feelings but that doesn't mean your wife wants to be with this guy. Flings are fun and exciting and you are probably reading a lot into that excitement.
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13 Nov 2025 5:01AM
Well that's the fun part for women. That's the deal.
You get pussy. They get feelings.
Watch Spartacus.
Do you want to know something scary?
If you get emotional about losing them, they lose interest. She's gaining feelings for him while you're wasting what she has left for you. You're depending on her vows to hold you together but women and vows are like toilet paper and hope: tentative at best.
But this is the risk. This is the game you wanted to play: are you capable of keeping your wife's interests while she plays with fire?
You let some good smelling high testosterone confident man slide his raw penis into her without you present, and in exchange... your soul.
That no-air feeling below your chest, that's your soul crying. I bet she doesn't think enough of you to give you pics and vids, but if her man asked she'd send him pics of your cock.
You'll be begging her to let him fuck you before long, just to participate. But you didn't start that way. You already know the truth: they've started growing a new thing without you. You can stick around and hope it will fall apart (it probably will), but you'll be like a used condom to her until she finds that replacement.
If you want her back, you need to get command of your feelings.
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12 Nov 2025 10:58AM
The best thing to do is talk to your and tell her how you feel. Tell that you want to be included if it’s just watching. My wife gets excited when her bull is coming over or she’s going with him but I know she just excited about the amazing sex they about to have and she always comes home and let’s either clean her or have sloppy seconds
