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The easiest way to doom your relationship would be to act as if she really is out of your league. I agree with the previous poster both in that you have to be confident without being an asshole, and also that you have to interact with her in conversation. Good ways of doing this are to put what she's just told you into different words, as sort of a confirmation and making sure that you understand, and to ask follow-up questions. Encourage her to keep talking, because most women aren't really all that interested in what you have to say unless it's in total agreement with what they've said.

If she's "out of your league" you may also want to ask yourself why she's going out with you. Make sure to put a little extra effort into reflecting whatever qualities you think she likes in you.

Good luck buddy.

First.... no girl is "out of your league". Unless you're a totally ball-less pussy.... You're a dude with "supposedly" a big dick. She's just a chick man. In general, the hotter they are, the dumber they are. So... you've already got the advantage. If she's hot enough, she's only ever dated stupid, cocky assholes. So, don't act like a douchebag. Act confident, even if it's only an act. Act like you are the fucking man, and you're taking her out to show her how a man treats a lady. (Like... you're that dude on the dos exuis commercial) Good chance she hasn't been on a date like that before. And when it comes to sex.... every chick is different, so it doesn't matter if you've been with 1 or 100.... the next chick is going to need something different. The key is to try lots of different things. Don't do ANYTHING for more than minute. Keep moving, switching... the angle, the speed, the intensity. Listen to her breath and moan. you'll know when she's liking something more. Take note. Keep moving. When you've got 4 or 5 things that she really liked- that's when you go back to those things. Stick with them until she cums. And watch some porn for God's sake. How can a dude not know what a chick wants??? Watch the classy lesbian porn. That will give you a good idea of how to go down. The classy shit- not the "I'm gonna eat your pussy raw bitch!" bs. omg... just realized... I'm tryin to give real advice on ML.... wtf.... just stick your cock in her ass. The louder she cries the harder you ram it. that'll teach her........ lol

Show her how to have a good time, and just enjoy yourself.

As others have said, play it cool and have some confidence in yourself.

If you're panicking, sweating that she's out of your league, then you're going to blow it before you even get started.

Just relax, talk with her, joke around, show her a good time.

Don't try too hard though.

Also, let her know your interested but don't try too hard to get in her pants.

One of my best friends is a girl and I've seen more than one instance of a guy who had a chance with her, until he started making her feel like he just saw her as a piece of ass.

Even if that's all you're looking for, don't let them know that.

Oh and I would add, talk with them, but let them do the talking, but actually pay attention to what they're saying.

One of the best ways in the world to get between a girl's legs is to find out what she's into and then pretend you give a fuck.

I've seen that game successfully run on my aforementioned friend and on more than one occasion.

Oh, you like 80s metal?

Wow, so do I.

You like to go to that park down the street and just walk around and commune with nature?

Wow, so do I.

You're fed up with the "loosers" you've been dating, well baby, I'm not a looser.

To prove it, I'll drop a $20 to buy you some beer and cigs.

Her, "oh, wow, you're wonderful."

No-one is out of your league. She's a human being that's all. Treat her with respect, be yourself and above all respect yourself. Don't act as if she out of your league. She's going out with you so you must have something she likes. Anyway,if nothing comes out of the date don't worry move on. Time is too short and there's thousands of women out there.

This thread is filled with good advice. I'm confused and scared.

How'd it go?

Yeah op if you're still around how did it turn out?

someone is actually taking advice from these people?