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Anonymous
16 Dec 2011 7:54AM

Sorry. You will not get anywhere with her. You are sending all the wrong signals.

Until you can answer this question "Why she'd enjoy being around you", not "Why she should be around a caring person", you will not progress a single inch. Read up some PUA books. You don't have to agree with it but it explains how important confidence is.

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Anonymous
16 Dec 2011 8:10AM

She's likes being around me because I share my ciggeretes with her. Sometimes she actually comes up to me and asks if I want to go out for a ciggerete. She's fairly happy if its just us two that go and smoke, but the guys I smoke with (I'm only a social smoker) have watrned me that she ponces off them for ciggeretes.

Does this classifify as using me?

Would I be more attractive if I told her no? Sometimes I give the guys ciggeretes infront of her so she's not unique, but their oftern pay may back in cash or next time they have ciggeretes.

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16 Dec 2011 2:47PM

WTF is a "ciggeretes"

Smokers are so fucking stupid.

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