Thank you, I do appreciate your message
hurt me soon, please sir
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24 Jan 2025 12:44PM
You're welcome. It sucks for sure, because you have the fantasies in your head imagining how good things could be if they allowed themselves to give in to their more carnal nature but that intimidates them and they are too scared to try. My ex-wife would always admit after the fact that when she allowed me to bring her out of her comfort zone that it was always an exciting experience but trying to get her to allow herself to do the things that excited me just became a chore rather than pleasure. I spent literally thousands on toys, lingerie, outfits, shoes that got used once and never again or not at all. I tried multiple times to explain my need and got promises that she would try all for naught. Frustrating thing was I wasn't trying to turn her in to a sexual deviantly or anything, though I would have liked if she would let herself be at times. In the end it all seemed futile. It's frustrating beyond words unfortunately.
