here is the situation, i have a fiance whom i love, we have 2 foster kids that are my siblings, i owe the mother in law thousands of dollars. everything started out great sex 2 - 3 times a day trying some stuff here and there and as the years go by sex is down to once a month and she wants it the same exact way each time, nothing new ever, i talk with her and explain my fantasies and needs and i can't even get a BJ, or HJ out of her. i am really thinking of cheating, there has been lots of opportunities, but i still love her and do not want to screw that up. i would like to get other peoples opinions and ideas (male and female) on my situation, on whether me messing around behind her back every now and then is good bad or ugly. thanks
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10 Dec 2011 1:03AM
Tell her the truth, tell her you have needs and if she isn't going to fulfill her responsibility as a wife you'll have to get it from somewhere else.
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10 Dec 2011 12:50PM
Sorry man, cheating should be out of the question here. Next time you fuck, maybe use a toy on her. Just start doing it a little different, maybe she'll respond.
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10 Dec 2011 5:58PM
are you to ugly that you won't give yourself a hj
