Well,I must confess I tried an experiment on my boyfriend without him knowing.
I got tired of initating sex all the time between the two of us so I decided not to ask for it or try to get any from him, the result... no sex in a month.
I know I haven't cum during sex with him in at least three months before that, because it was every week or two that we had sex.
Because of the long time in between times we had sex he would be done in less and less time.
So he always finishes before I get there.
Don't get me wrong all other parts of the relationship are just fine, except no sex.
I know he is online looking at porn. (I found this site cause he has an account on here, but he doesn't know I am on here at all).
I found because of his very apparent lack of interest in sex, that I have lost the motivation to want to have sex with him at all.
I masturbate a lot and at times when he is in the next room.
I got a fleshlight and he found it but doesn't seem to care so I plan on buying a dildo and a buttplug and then letting him find it when I am in the room so see what his reaction will be.
Or let him walk in on me using them.
Maybe it's time to start sharing my cock, with a guy that would appreciate me, for being a sweet guy?