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20 Feb 2012 11:38PM

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I have to confess that I want my gf to cheat on me. She's not the first girl I've dated who I've encouraged to have fun with other guys. When we fuck I constantly get her to talk dirty about other guys she's fucked in the past and how she wishes to have a threesome with me. I'm not really that interested in having a threesome with her but get crazy turned on thinking about her being a dirty little slut with other guys. She's currently on vacation with a whole bunch of girls in Dominican and I'm desperately hoping she's getting her brains fucked out.

I'm worried about her not telling me if anything happened when she returns cause I can tell she's a little skeptical about the scenario and if she were to do something wouldn't want me to get upset. I re-assure her that it wouldn't upset me at all and that I encourage it be she still doesn't seem 100%. Any suggestions for helping her be more open with me if she is a dirty little slut?

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Anonymous

20 Feb 2012 11:45PM

It seems to me in your head you are already suspiscious she is a slut and/or wants someone else. You want to confirm it, it turns you on when you feel betrayed. it's called reinactment. Were you betrayed by someone whom you loved?

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Anonymous

20 Feb 2012 11:46PM

So what's the attraction of this if ur not participating? And what happens when she starts spending more time with a guy who is better in bed or better at conversation than u? Seems to me ur shooting yerself in the foot a bit!

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Anonymous

21 Feb 2012 12:01AM

OP - I have been cheated on in the past by my first gf who I dated for over 5 years. Dated another sweet girl who had a lot of previous partners which got me into the whole talking dirty about the past while we had sex. My last gf even made a video for me of her getting fucked by 3 guys. My current gf is a really sweet girl and seems very interested in only being with me but we went through a little rough spot a few months ago and she ended up sleeping with another guy after a significant fight with eachother. This led to us breaking up for a few months which she had sex with another guy but we're now back together cause we both care for eachother dearly. She has issues with being 100% honest with me sometimes but I deeply care for the girl and want her to be 100% honest whether she chooses to fuck other guys or not. If she is the freak of my dreams though I want to reassure her as best as I can that I'm ok with her being a dirty little slut as long as she's honest and open about it with me.

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Anonymous

21 Feb 2012 12:10AM

I don't think it would be healthy for your relationship, but if you only see this girl as something to fuck go ahead. The things you've described sound like emotionally sabotage. You have felt so betrayed that you find pleasure in the betrayal, atleast you not in the dark. That is the part that turns you on. You like reliving you past emotional traumas and you are using this girl to do that. Have you ever thought that this pushes her away and cause emotional distance between you. She may feel like you don't love her enough to be jealous or that you are using her sexually. You need to communicate more openly with her about you motives and why you want her to do these things. If that isn't clear to yourself then I suggest you reflect on why you have a desire to do these things and if any past experiences are causing you to become detached from your partner sexually. If you ever want to chat I'd love to give you some advice. I have the same desires with my current bf. I've dug around my head and realize it stems from a childhood full of abuse by many different people in my life. I never felt like a belonged to one person sexually so I don't want it now. I'm working on though and hopefully I wont be this way forever.

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Anonymous

21 Feb 2012 12:17AM

OP - I would appreciate a chat. You seem to understand more about me than I do myself. How do I go about contacting you?

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Anonymous

21 Feb 2012 12:25AM

if you don't have an account you can make one and PM me, it's free and easy, but if you feel uncomfortable chating on here you can give me your email and I'll send you a message. either way is fine. I'd love to help you get more understanding of yourself and maybe help you heal so you can have a more sexually healthy/satisfying/fulfilling relationship.

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