im a 20 year old female and i was molested for many years by an uncle when i was younger. this past week he died and i went to his funeral. my confession isnt that i was molested or that the person who molested me died. my confession is that i wasnt happy or sad about his death. i stood at the funeral feeling nothing, not caring one way or the other. I think that's strange.
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22 May 2012 9:37AM
it sometimes takes days, weeks for it to sink in that he is gone.
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22 May 2012 9:54AM
Why the fuck should you care?
So he's family.
You don't hardly know him
So What?
You didn't have a caring relationship.
Like going to a wedding of a distant cousin or niece.
You tear up?
Fuck no, free food and drinks
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22 May 2012 9:49PM
You didn't feel anything because you got over it. Others posting here want you to suffer for life. I say congrats on moving on.
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22 May 2012 10:04PM
Just forget him and move on. Live your life as you want.
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22 May 2012 10:13PM
You've completed the mourning stage, while it takes people years... I'm happy for you
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24 May 2012 7:42PM
sorry babe i didn't mean to FUCK around with your feelings.
that was really incredible CHILDish of me.
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24 May 2012 8:32PM
You were indifferent. It would seem you've come to some kind of peace with what happened, and you're just living your life, and he died, and ok great. If you didn't come to some kind of peace and closure with it, methinks you wouldn't be on this site of all porn sites, let alone porn sites in general, so you came out of it with at least a working sexuality, if not riddled with perverse fetishes and whatnot, but then again, you really don't need molestation in your past to have kinks in your sexual repetoire.
