I confess that I’m considering using my friendship with a woman who is twice my age to get me some hot MILF oral. We’ve done play sessions before but never moved beyond me touching her. She knows I'm interested in her but I can’t bring myself to do it because while I have permission from my fiancée to explore, it feels too much like actual cheating. Even if it’s only oral and me feeling her up it would be too much.
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If you have permission to explore then go for it. It's not cheating if that's true.
If you're feeling this hesitancy, I'd say that's a good sign that you probably shouldn't do it. Some relationships can take this, others can't. Even with permission.
It doesn't mean that you've got a weaker relationship or you're less of a man. It means that something in the back of your mind is screaming out a warning.
It might be a good idea to listen.