I confess its difficult for me, just to have easy fun with a girl. As soon as I'm shure of me not going to fall in love with her, I'm not able to go on open minded. I have no moral issue with it, just cant hurt somebodies feelings, not even risk it. Since years try to learn it! I'm 28 years old and would be curious, if some guys, who felt like that and came over it, told their story.
On the other hand, SEXUALLY, I enjoy to dominate, hurt, humiliate, bind etc. my partners. I even made two of them cry sometimes. I don't understand, why all girlfriends I had, longer relationships or short affairs, were willing and able to get used to this and even told me, they enjoyed it, to serve my desires. Is this believable? Was it luck? Or are women able to let themselves in to anything, if the "opponent" seems trustworthy (and attractive enough)?
For this issue, I'd like to ask the girls around about their voice.
Thanks a lot,
J., Germany
