I confess that I want a good wife who fits the following description.It has deep rooted unresolved trauma. It has an inability to set and keep boundaries.It struggles with self-love, deep rooted feelings of worthlessness and fear of abandonment. Its life experiences before meeting it’s husband has already conditioned it to believe that it’s wants and feelings are irrelevant. It has a history of slutty impulsive behavior and genuinely enjoys being degraded and used like a whore.For anyone who already has a good wife what characteristics need to be added ?
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16 Jun 2023 5:13PM
So basically someone with borderline personality disorder lol
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20 Jun 2023 11:31AM
I think so, my girlfriend has a lot of signs of BPD and while it has great upsides, I often get the feeling that she's lying and being manipulative (not something I want from a perfect wife). This is my first gf with BPD (undiagnosed) and I'm not sure how to manage/control her. She's 23 and a very broken slut. She said that her dad abuse her mom all her life (emotionally, financially, verbally and sexually) and that they often didn't know where their next meal was coming from. She has a ugly face, no ass and there's nothing special about her tits. She's the ugly duckling in her friend group. She's a people pleaser, the type to go along with whatever a complete stranger tells her to do the moment she meets them (during sex she confessed to enjoying meeting strangers and being a slut for them). She has no sense of self worth and no ability to set and enforce boundaries. She has confessed to fucking at least 5 strangers on different occasions because she was "drunk, bored and lonely" at the bar or the club. She's fucked strangers in their cars. She confessed that one time a mutual friend (a cop) had to rescue her from a bar toilet and all she remembers is one minute getting drunk with friends and the next minute being in a toilet stall getting face fucked by a guy she never met before while a group of men were gathered outside the toilet stall (her friends realized what was happening and told the cop friend who happened to be there too but imagine what would have happened if he wasn't there). She cant say what happened or how long it went on for, only that the cop was trying to get her out of there for a while but the guy didn't want to stop and that the group of guys followed them to his car and were quite upset. She cant remember how she got in that situation but mentioned that on another occasion at a night club she was drunk and bored and flirted with a guy before leading him to the toilets and fucking him for a bit before "coming to her senses and stopping it from continuing". She said it was a type of self harm and that covid caused her to have to leave her apartment and return home where she did a year of celibacy before meeting me (probably a lie). She's ashamed by the disgusting sexual things she has done in the past but admits to enjoying it in the moment. She gave me pukejobs, ass to mouth, sucks the dirty but plug, lets me piss in her mouth, degrading body writing etc (most of which I've gotten her to do on camera) all before even becoming my gf. I recently made her my gf on the condition that she must be respectful, honest and obedient and would be punished for any infringements of these core principles. I wanted more control over her life and her decisions. We agreed she would resist giving me total control but she wants to feel worthy of a relationship so she agreed. My plan has been to use her as practice for when I find a much better looking broken slut but this bitch is addictive as fuck. Thing is her friends all know her as being a huge slut and because we run in the same circles it makes me look stupid. I've overheard her guy friend who knows her for years say things like " You're built for casual sex, look at the kind of things that you do" after which she tried to shut him up without me noticing which made me think there's much more that she is hiding from me due to fear of rejection/abandonment. She tried to act like nothing happened and when I asked if she has a reputation for being a slut among her friends she lied and said no. I really need advice on how to manage this girl.
