Let me start off this post by stating that you do you in life. I am convinced that half the users who are currently active on this site both figuratively and literally do not have the balls to follow their kinks (at least the legal ones, fuck you if you’re kink is illegal). What’s the point of having a profile if you’re not using the liberty to either posting content or trying to find someone to help with your fantasies. If you’re just here to socialize, put a disclaimer in your profile description.
This site is meant to aid you in your pursuit of happiness. Use your imagination, Get laid. We’re not getting younger and the people here will be gone one day. Use your time wisely.