Finding Daddy in a Good Girl

Hello, Everyone,

From the first person, so a lot of I me my... Am working through a painful D/s breakup and was hoping this would help others, so you're the I me my.

After the blind-siding end of a second long-term DD/lg relationship-- the first a 10-year marriage (not surprising), the last a 10-month 24/7 LDR (breathtakingly surprising. Does 10 months count as long-term?)-- and finding once again that I was moaning about passive-aggressive, narcissistic pussies who THINK they're Daddy Doms but are really submissive cowards, I made myself very quiet and asked myself exactly what I thought a good Daddy was.

As a result, instead of moaning some more, crying into my pillow, or sending him a bajillion texts asking him why he was being such a cunt and letting him talk me back into the relationship (or, rather, manipulate me into talking myself back into the relationship), I went out on a tear (thank God for New Orleans), sloshed home to create a FetLife account, joined some relevant groups, contacted a couple of local people who seemed like they knew their way around the scene, and read myself back into soberville for almost 24 hours straight. And then, I started a list of the qualities I thought were essential in a Daddy Dom.

The list of words became fairly lengthy, so I started a taxonomy and they ended up fitting into groups of three. I'm sure the information architect in me (yes, I'm a geek, shut up.) will further categorize these groups, but it just began to seem... I don't know, lyrical. And then, the word, "compassionate" started resonating. First, my eyes were drawn again and again to that 13-letter composition, and then the sound of its 4 syllables echoed fluidly in my head like water moving, and finally that reciprocal beating of the rhythm of the word with my heart that happens when my body's trying to tell me something began.

It occurred to me that it might be the little girl in me that was trying to soften toward him again after he betrayed my trust for the 4th time in as many months. But no, that softening wasn't happening this time (and still isn't, thank you very much). While thinking about this, the question, "What exactly is a Good Girl?" started whispering, and a new list began. And, guess what?

The lists are virtually identical.

To an independent, perceptive, dominant woman in all other aspects of life, this shouldn't have been the epiphany that it was. How could a woman who prides herself on her unerring spidey sense and strength of character be suckered in by not one, but two men of low character who manipulated the very D/s abandon that led her to them initially?

And that's when I realized that compassion wasn't supposed to be reserved solely for others. Unless you consider the little girl inside of a strong woman to be other. And, I don't anymore. That little girl, I, deserve(s) the same compassion, forgiveness and understanding as Daddy does. A Good Girl requires a Daddy with a strength of character to match her own. Even if that requisite reciprocity comes from being her own Daddy while she searches for the man who truly deserves and appreciates her considerable love, power and control.

So, sit tight, little girl. You've got everything you need in the interim.

Here are the lists, if you're interested:

Daddy Is (1) The Law Of Threes:
https://fetlife.com/users/1864710/posts/1228667]

A Good Girl Is (1) The Law Of Threes:
https://fetlife.com/users/1864710/posts/1229514]

XOXOX,
Rain

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So I just got home from visiting my ex's family. I was there for an extra day because of what I found lol. I stayed at my ex's grandparents house cause well we get along ok, but not that well. The first night I realized her cousin was in town from out of state. She is a shy kinda gothic geeky girl about 5 ft 7 and 120 pounds and turned 18 late last year. First night I didn't pay much attention I'm 29 and well shes much younger so I just went to bed without even saying a word. The next day around 2 I noticed her doing some bad ass art work and saw she had pictures on the wall that she had done too. Conversation started from there and after a few witty sexual exchanges I invited her to go to a carnival that was going on that evening. We went to to the carnival and started holding hands after she got scared on one of the rides. By then it was around 1030 so we went what all people do in a small town.....Went to Wal Mart lol. Started driving home and I said I'm not really tired are you? She said no so we drove around for a while and ended upparked in a field a few miles from the house and looked at the stars. She proceeds to really open up and say she doesn't really get hit on buy guys just girls. Says she has never had sex with a guy just kissed and every time she is with a girl she is the dom one and never gets anything in return. She sits up and and moves to the front of the hood and I jump off and face her as she proceeds to tell me more. She trails off and we both lean in to kiss each other. By then I have been rock hard forever lol and just oozing old cum. She scoots tword me and puts her crotch right against my dick and kisses me harder. I start to take off my pants and she starts breathing harder. I move her right hand to my throbbing cock and she starts sliding her hand up and down it and I must say for not ever touching one she did a damn fine job. All the sudden she asks if I have a condom and I reply hell yes I do lol. I get the condom and come back and she has her pants and panties off and is spread waiting on me. I decide to make her wait and I move my mouth to that sweet virgin pussy which is perfectly smooth btw and smells and taste amazing, she lets out a lil yelp when my mouth touches he clit I sucked and licked her for only like 2 mins before she was moaning and having an orgasm. I knew this was the perfect time for her to feel my dick in her. I stand up and give her a long kiss and she says damn I taste good and giggles. I watch her face and slowly push my cock into her very wet tight vagina. She starts to bleed. I watch her go from pain to ecstasy and back the whole time I am asking her if she is ok and she always said yes go deeper. After about 10 mins of going deep slowly I decide to really let her have it and told her to get ready, she shyly said ok. I start pounding it in and she lets out yelps of excitement the looks on her face were priceless, pure enjoyment, wide eyes, mouth open and wanting it more. Every time she had an orgasm she let me know, by this time we were like 40 mins into the whole ordeal and she was up to 5. I tell her I'm gonna cum and she says do it deep so I thrust in as hard as I can and fill the condom as full as I had ever and slowly pull out. I take the condom off and she jumps down and starts suckking on my still dripping dick. OMG for never ever ever.....having a dick in the mouth she was AMAZING. Guess all those girls she had been with paid off in the oral department. She would stroke me and suck it at the same time all while looking at my face. Once in a while stopping to smile at me. I told her I was going to cum she just kept going. i shot a gigantic load in her mouth and she didn't wince or pull back at all, just took it all and played with it in her mouth and on my dick for a while. She said it tasted good and I told her there is a lot more if she wants it lol. That night when we were back on the house I snuck into her room at her request. She treated my dick like a god, she couldn't get enough. i had 2 more orgasms and she was absolutely amazing!

Just goes to show that ya never know where a small innocent conversation will go!
Also it was one of my ex's cousins lol

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New Dom looking for pets for webcam. If you are a good pet who appreciates her master fully then send me a message.

I am a natural D but fresh into his proud title. I do not tie up or torture my pets. I would like to say I am light and more into the head game of the ordeal.. It is 70% sexual but goes beyond extacy as I expect you to ask among other things. I may spank, or humiliate... slightly. Light BDSM. No blood, no tieing you up to the extent of pain. But pain will be involved when you disobey in some form combined with pleasure ;). Is it a little pet need her master? PM me and well discuss further and you get my email... You will earn it though

Need help. Ok some back story first i dated a girl back in highschool (both of us are 19 now) and she and i graduated and went to differernt colleges as i moved out of state so we split up. I was home recently and we ended up bumping into one another at a party and got to talking about old times and and as the night progressed we both got drunk and ended up hooking up. Now sex with her when we were dating was great but over the two years she had become a pro at it, could even deepthroat me and all (average size 6")

We exchanged emails and have been chatting on msn and been having camsex. This girls a freak she will do just about anything i ask, bate with vegetables one in ass and cucmuber in her pussy, strip tease, talk dirty and so on.

The thing is throught our chats she made mention that she had just lost her master. i inquired and she admitted she was in a sub dom relationship online with an older guy (50s) and that it had ended all of a sudden for her without warning. She also told me she was looking for a guy she could trust to be her master and tell her what to do sexually and help her explore new things. She told me she trusted me and that she wanted me to be that guy.

Now i must admit that ive never been into any master-slave (submissive) relationship before so this is all fairly new to me. I accepted and am playing the role to the best of my abilities.

This is where i need your guys help. I need suggestions from guys or woman that have or are currently in this kinda of relationship to help me out. Give me advice on what to get her to do. So far its been tame, shes never done anything in public before so i had her videotape herself masturbating in her car on ride to work one day and send it to me. She admits that this turned her on and the video is amazing i must say.

I need a couple things from you guys i need assignments i can give to her in way of suggestions or a point in the right direction to any websites i can research.

Also i need a list of punishments i can give her that she has to do for me either on webcam live or with pics or videos. This one is important as i know as her master (what i have her call me) i need to keep her in line so she dose'nt forget that i own her.

She is NOT into pain other then normal nipple pinch and ass slap. She will not have sex with a stranger or flash guys in public. No to animal sex. She is kind of on the fence about bathromm stuff, ie take a vid of her going 1 or 2.

No i will not give her to anyone else to play with mainly because she wants someone she knows and trusts so even if i DID want to she would'nt accept it so no requests asking for her email please.

She is short 5'1" 107lbs and into pretty much anything when it comes to stuff she'll do for me so help me out guys and i will reward you all with unseen win from my personal stash.

I confess i may be in over my head. Need help Need help. Ok some back story first i dated a girl back in highschool (both of us are 19 now) and she and i graduated and went to differernt colleges as i moved out of state so we split up. I was home recently and we ended up bumping into one another at a party and got to talking about old times and and as the night progressed we both got drunk and ended up hooking up. Now sex with her when we were dating was great but over the two years she had become a pro at it, could even deepthroat me and all (average size 6")

We exchanged emails and have been chatting on msn and been having camsex. This girls a freak she will do just about anything i ask, bate with vegetables one in ass and cucmuber in her pussy, strip tease, talk dirty and so on.

The thing is throught our chats she made mention that she had just lost her master. i inquired and she admitted she was in a sub dom relationship online with an older guy (50s) and that it had ended all of a sudden for her without warning. She also told me she was looking for a guy she could trust to be her master and tell her what to do sexually and help her explore new things. She told me she trusted me and that she wanted me to be that guy.

Now i must admit that ive never been into any master-slave (submissive) relationship before so this is all fairly new to me. I accepted and am playing the role to the best of my abilities.

This is where i need your guys help. I need suggestions from guys or woman that have or are currently in this kinda of relationship to help me out. Give me advice on what to get her to do. So far its been tame, shes never done anything in public before so i had her videotape herself masturbating in her car on ride to work one day and send it to me. She admits that this turned her on and the video is amazing i must say.

I need a couple things from you guys i need assignments i can give to her in way of suggestions or a point in the right direction to any websites i can research.

Also i need a list of punishments i can give her that she has to do for me either on webcam live or with pics or videos. This one is important as i know as her master (what i have her call me) i need to keep her in line so she dose'nt forget that i own her.

She is NOT into pain other then normal nipple pinch and ass slap. She will not have sex with a stranger or flash guys in public. No to animal sex. She is kind of on the fence about bathromm stuff, ie take a vid of her going 1 or 2.

No i will not give her to anyone else to play with mainly because she wants someone she knows and trusts so even if i DID want to she would'nt accept it so no requests asking for her email please.

She is short 5'1" 107lbs and into pretty much anything when it comes to stuff she'll do for me so help me out guys and i will reward you all with unseen win from my personal stash. Private message me if you like

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