Finding Daddy in a Good Girl

Hello, Everyone,

From the first person, so a lot of I me my... Am working through a painful D/s breakup and was hoping this would help others, so you're the I me my.

After the blind-siding end of a second long-term DD/lg relationship-- the first a 10-year marriage (not surprising), the last a 10-month 24/7 LDR (breathtakingly surprising. Does 10 months count as long-term?)-- and finding once again that I was moaning about passive-aggressive, narcissistic pussies who THINK they're Daddy Doms but are really submissive cowards, I made myself very quiet and asked myself exactly what I thought a good Daddy was.

As a result, instead of moaning some more, crying into my pillow, or sending him a bajillion texts asking him why he was being such a cunt and letting him talk me back into the relationship (or, rather, manipulate me into talking myself back into the relationship), I went out on a tear (thank God for New Orleans), sloshed home to create a FetLife account, joined some relevant groups, contacted a couple of local people who seemed like they knew their way around the scene, and read myself back into soberville for almost 24 hours straight. And then, I started a list of the qualities I thought were essential in a Daddy Dom.

The list of words became fairly lengthy, so I started a taxonomy and they ended up fitting into groups of three. I'm sure the information architect in me (yes, I'm a geek, shut up.) will further categorize these groups, but it just began to seem... I don't know, lyrical. And then, the word, "compassionate" started resonating. First, my eyes were drawn again and again to that 13-letter composition, and then the sound of its 4 syllables echoed fluidly in my head like water moving, and finally that reciprocal beating of the rhythm of the word with my heart that happens when my body's trying to tell me something began.

It occurred to me that it might be the little girl in me that was trying to soften toward him again after he betrayed my trust for the 4th time in as many months. But no, that softening wasn't happening this time (and still isn't, thank you very much). While thinking about this, the question, "What exactly is a Good Girl?" started whispering, and a new list began. And, guess what?

The lists are virtually identical.

To an independent, perceptive, dominant woman in all other aspects of life, this shouldn't have been the epiphany that it was. How could a woman who prides herself on her unerring spidey sense and strength of character be suckered in by not one, but two men of low character who manipulated the very D/s abandon that led her to them initially?

And that's when I realized that compassion wasn't supposed to be reserved solely for others. Unless you consider the little girl inside of a strong woman to be other. And, I don't anymore. That little girl, I, deserve(s) the same compassion, forgiveness and understanding as Daddy does. A Good Girl requires a Daddy with a strength of character to match her own. Even if that requisite reciprocity comes from being her own Daddy while she searches for the man who truly deserves and appreciates her considerable love, power and control.

So, sit tight, little girl. You've got everything you need in the interim.

Here are the lists, if you're interested:

Daddy Is (1) The Law Of Threes:
https://fetlife.com/users/1864710/posts/1228667]

A Good Girl Is (1) The Law Of Threes:
https://fetlife.com/users/1864710/posts/1229514]

XOXOX,
Rain

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After a bad breakup and still being out of work, I started going to the gym late at night. Usually only did like an hour on the treadmill just to pass the time. I aint gonna say the name but most will know what im talking about when I say I was at one of the big gym chains that are real assholes about supposed “sexual harassment” at the gym, like they will ask you to leave if they even think your checking out someone else or looking around in the slightest.

Anyway, was there on a Thursday night around 11 since they are open 24/7. On the treadmill with my headphones in and there’s an attractive women getting on another one a few down from me; she was tall, athletic-looking, some tattoos, good sized tits, very pretty face and with a fire red dyed sidecut. I stole glances at her but try to stay focused and ignore her. She looked close to my age(late twenties).

At one point like 20 min later I thought I heard something, turned and realized she’d been talking to me. She was commenting on something on the tv screen to me, not realizing I had earbuds in. We laughed and made small talk but barely 2 min later, one of the supervisor type people came over and asked me to leave for disturbing others. Because I was chubby and not that attractive, they automatically marked me as being a problem or creep and uncomfortable for others. I argued that we were talking and she even got offended and defended me but they just wouldn’t hear it and asked that I leave. She surprisingly started to flip out on them and go off before saying WE were leaving but saying they were gonna see more.

She pulled me out, asked where my car was and was pretty happy when I pointed it out as in the front row facing the full wall windows of the gym. She told me to get in the driver’s seat and move it back while she actualy stripped off ALL her clothes, sat on my lap facing away from me and we started fucking right there in full view of everyone in the gym. Some of the few others in there got a kick out of it(since they heard what happened), others were shocked or avoided looking, but the employees were visibly pissed off, which is I guess what we were going for. As we fucked we literally made small talk and got to know each other. Turns out she lives close by, was bi and had a girlfriend but as we were doing this for a “good cause”, she didn’t think it was cheating.

About 5 min later, while we are still fucking, a cop shows up, having been called by the gym. A middle-aged lady cop comes up to the window and we roll it down while still fucking. We explain what happened and she literally breaks down laughing, saying she’d probably do the same in our position. She does nothing, lets us keep going and leaves. We finished, talk a little more, exchanged information and leave separately.

That was 5 months ago, we are close friends with benefits now and we do the same thing every late thursday night, meeting up and having sex in the car outside the gym. Sometimes we make a show of it, other times we’re more subtle and enjoy ourselves. Sometimes the gym staff leaves us alone, but still hates us, and sometimes they call the cops. The cops never do anything, either not responding or seeing us and doing nothing. Our situation is like a big joke among the police department now. its great.

I confess, I found out my friend uses motherless. We went out and talked about my recent breakup. The fact that she watches porn on motherless came up and I couldn't believe it. My mind keeps racing, thinking, what kind of porn does she watch on here? Has she ever posted? I have always thought she was cute, but my attraction to her keeps growing. If she sees this, I would only want her to reach out to me if she felt the same way.

I am your average fifty year old dude, but I need some advice. I had the great luck of moving in with a beautiful friend of mine, after she broke up with her boyfriend of many years (he was my friend, too, and still calls her, but moved far away). She didn't want to stay alone, as she said she was scared, and asked if I'd move in, of which I did. I should mention that she is about fifteen years younger than me, blond, big boobs, and kicking curves. Although she has been a really close friend, almost like a little sister really, I have had my fair share of fantasies about her over the years. I even suggested we fool around once, a long time ago, when her and her boyfriend were still together, and she just looked me in the eye and said, "I'll pretend I didn't hear that." Still, she has confessed that she has not been laid in a long time, as her boyfriend stopped fucking her a long time ago, and she is not one who cheats. We get along great, hanging out at the house whenever we can, and I see her giving me that look every once in a while. Yet, when mutual friends ask her if we are fucking, she says things like, " No, we are not like that. We are friends." So, my question is this: Should I try to get in her pants again? If so, how should I go about it? I don't want her to get upset and kick me out. Likewise, I don't want a romantic relationship with her, at the moment, as she is still getting over her breakup. I can't stand the idea of some other dude beating me to the punch though, as I really want to be the rebound guy. Just curious if any of you have any advice (besides 'yeah, fuck her, dude) that may help me to fuck without getting kicked out, or causing any issues. Please let me know. Thanks.

My ex-boyfriend of two years moved out about two months ago. It wasn't a nasty breakup, but he just wasnt satisfying me anymore and I think he knew it so he started to treat me like shit. Once we ended it and he decided to move out he was really nice all of a sudden.

A few weeks ago I was really horny and we agreed we could meet up to fuck without feelings getting involved again. He rarely ever let me take charge but he asked if I would fuck him with a strapon. We had done this a few times before, and I love it so of course I agreed.

I even put on some simple but sexy lingerie before he came over. I was starting to get really wet when it was almost time for him to show up.

When he finally arrived we didnt waste any time and he had me on the bed, legs over his shoulders, squirting all over him as he pumped me full of cum. He collapsed next to me and I started to get up to go clean his cum out of my pussy but I was still extremely horny. I sat over his face and made him lick his own cum out of me. I honestly half expected him to get mad and try to tell me no, but he not only did it, he seemed to love it.

He was rock hard by the time he finished cleaning my pussy so I grabbed my strapon and without me saying anything, he got on his hands and knees and reached back to spread his ass for me.
I lubed up and started to fuck him. He normally could take it for about 20 minutes or so and then I would have to jerk him off a little to get him to cum. But this time after about 5 minutes of me fucking him and him keeping his hands on his ass, he came all over my bed.

He was being so submissive that I decided to push my luck. I grabbed him by his neck (hair is too short) and made him lick up his own cum off my bed.

After that, I kicked him out and we kept texting for a little while. He confessed that he recently gained an interest in chastity and wanted to know if I would hold his key.

I told him I would if he really would follow my rules and become my lil bitch. He hasnt cum in over a week and it is driving him insane. I keep making him eat my pussy and fuck me with toys. Every time we have hung out I make sure to wear something sexy and tease him.

Guess we will see where this goes...