just found this in an old usenet archive i once downloaded.... good advice

ERIN'S BLOWJOB ADVICE FOR GOOD SLUTS

There is a lot of bad information about how to give a good blowjob on the internet. I have written this guide to help girls understand how they can be much better at doing what they are supposed to do. I am hereby releasing this text into the public domain so all sluts can read it.

I am calling you sluts because that is the first thing you have to understand. If you want to do what you are meant to do then you can't think of yourself as girlfriend, wife, lover. When a man looks down at you and sees you with a cock in your mouth, he sees a slut. You are a slut.

WHAT'S THE PURPOSE OF A BLOWJOB

Don't listen to advice that tells you blowjobs are intimate or loving. Blowjobs are not even about physical pleasure. Fucking your mouth feels good for a man but so does fucking your other holes. The reason men like to fuck your face is the same reason they like to fuck your ass: because it degrades you. When a man makes you gag on his cock, it's not an accident. He wants you to suffer. A man does not cum in your mouth because it feels good. Cumming feels the same everywhere. He cums in your mouth because he wants you to taste his cum. Men like to watch women gag on dildos. The dildo doesn't feel anything. Men just like to see women humiliated. That's also why they like to cum on a woman's face. To mark her as a slut.

Do you understand that? That's you.

THE FIRST RULE OF BLOWJOBS: DON'T COMPLAIN

Don't complain if deepthroating his cock makes you gag. Don't complain if he cums in your mouth. Don't complain if he cums on your face. Don't complain if he slaps you. Don't complain if you don't like the taste of his cock. Don't complain if he fucks your throat so hard that you vomit. Don't complain if you can't breathe. Don't complain if he doesn't stop when you want him to.

Remember: if you feel like crying, you're doing it right.

THE BASICS

You're here to get fucked. That means his cock will go into your throat, not just your mouth. You have three important holes: your mouth, your pussy and your asshole. Your mouth shouldn't get fucked less deeply than the other two.

You're not here just to lick his cock. The reason you may have to lick his cock is so that you can get its taste in your mouth. If a man asks you to lick his cock, he wants you to really fill your mouth with the taste of penis so that you know you're a slut. But that's just a detail. You're here to get facefucked.

Getting facefucked can be active or passive. Either he fucks your throat with his cock, his fingers or a dildo. Or you do it yourself. In both cases you have no control. You don't set the rhythm. You don't take breaks unless told to. You never use your hands unless he says so. You just open your mouth and take his cock as deep as it goes. Not "as deep as you can"! Your lower lip should touch his balls. If he holds you down, don't struggle. Remember: you're a slut. He knows you don't like it. That's why he's doing it.

HOW TO SWALLOW

If he cums in your mouth, you will always swallow his cum. The only reason you would ever spit out some cum is if he tells you to, for example if you're supposed to wear it on your tits or spit it into the mouth of another girl.

You should never take cum down the back of your throat. If you do that, you won't taste it. Always draw back enough to let him cum into the front of your mouth, onto your tongue. He wants you to know that taste. He wants you to know what you've done. You've taken a man's semen into your mouth like a whore. He may ask you to show him his cum on your tongue, to remind you of your position. Never swallow immediately.

THE SECOND RULE OF BLOWJOBS: MOST CUM BELONGS IN YOUR MOUTH

Sometimes a man will cum on other parts of your body, such as your face, your tits, your pussy or your ass. He may take a photo of you in this humiliated position. Two things may now happen: you will have to keep the cum where it is, or you will eat it. Wiping it off is not an option. Don't even think about it. If he doesn't tell you to walk around for the rest of the day with cum on you, then as soon as he is satisfied with seeing you like this, you will take the cum with your hands and put it in your mouth. If you have large enough breasts, lick the cum off them with your tongue. Even after that, do not wash yourself or rinse your mouth unless he tells you to. A good blowjob can continue to humiliate you with the smell and taste for hours. He may fuck your throat again multiple times until you are a complete mess, or send you out of the house to humiliate you in public. This is part of what it means to be a woman who sucks cock.

There are other situations where you should swallow cum. If a man fucks you, he may cum inside you or into a condom. In the first case, stuff several fingers into yourself (at least two) and put the cum in your mouth. The fact that you are tasting your own pussy or ass will make it better for him. Also remember to clean off his cock. In this case licking can be good, because he wants you to taste it.

If he came into a condom, you should invert the condom into your mouth. He may also do this for you. Condoms are also an easy way of filling up a bra with cum so you can wear it for the rest of the day. Once the condom is mostly empty, put it into your mouth and lick it clean. Don't take it out until he tells you to. Condoms can taste very bad. Your suffering will please him.

THE REST OF YOUR BODY

While you are sucking cock, there is no reason not to use the rest of your body to improve the experience for him. You have a lot of options.

If your hands are free, you should use them on yourself. You can play with your tits or finger your pussy or asshole. Don't try to pleasure yourself, just penetrate yourself deeply. If he momentarily stops fucking your throat, stick those same fingers into your mouth and keep going. There is no reason for you not to be gagging.

Dildos and buttplugs are also useful. If your position allows it, they can also free your hands so that you can have your holes fucked and still play with your tits. Bottles (beer, shampoo) can be used as well.

Clamping your nipples during a blowjob isn't always a good idea, as he may want to play with them himself, but the bouncing caused by your throat being fucked will make the clamps hurt you more. It will be uncomfortable for you and look very good for him.

DILDOS AND OTHER OBJECTS

You should start learning how to humiliate yourself without a cock. A dildo can do a very good job of degrading you. You can use a dildo to show your man what a slut you are by gagging on it nonstop for a long time. Since the dildo will never cum, you can keep gagging on it until he tells you to stop. This can mean ten minutes or three hours. To make it better, use the dildo on all of your holes. He will appreciate your facial expression as you gag on your own pussy juices. Not being wet is not an excuse.

A man can also use a dildo to fuck your throat. Such throatfucks are usually some of the roughest you can experience. Now the man is not getting any pleasure at all. He is only doing this to hurt you. Keep your hands busy and away from your mouth.

Other objects can also be used to fuck your throat. Bottles are a popular choice and easily available. If your bed has a bedpost, gag on it before and after fucking it. Men enjoy seeing women using inanimate objects from their environment as sex toys. They know that after an object has been used to degrade or hurt you, you will never look at it the same way again. They want everything around you to remind you of the slutty things you've done.

PANTIES

Your panties are an important part of you as a woman. They express who you are and how you deserve to be used.

When sucking a man's cock, always wear a thong or G-string. They can come in very handy.

In many positions a man can use your thong to hurt your pussy by pulling on it as he fucks your throat. It also makes your ass look slutty, like it should. Wear tight thongs that split your pussy lips. If they are slightly painful to wear, they are the right size.

Your panties can be put into your mouth before, after and even during a blowjob. They can also be stuffed into your pussy to increase your discomfort as you suck. If nothing else is happening to your pussy, you should always do this yourself. When he's done fucking your throat, you can take them out and put them into your mouth as a sign of how much of a whore you are.

Panties can also be used to wipe cum off your body so it can go where it belongs: your mouth.

THE THIRD RULE OF BLOWJOBS: VOMITING IS NO REASON TO STOP

If you follow the rules, it's possible that you will throw up while being throatfucked. This is not a reason to stop sucking or to complain. Most men aren't turned on by the vomit but by your humiliation. Keep taking the cock as hard as before, just remember to clean up your mess after you're done like a good girl.

IDEAS TO KEEP IT INTERESTING

Suck his cock after he's just pissed. You'll have to get used to the taste anyway. Begin by licking the drops of piss off his cock with your tongue.

Suck his cock after he's fucked another woman. Maybe one of your friends, or your sister.

Always use the same panties to wipe off the cum and put it in your mouth. Never wash them. Every time you use them will be more disgusting for you and more exciting for him.

Try taking his cock and a dildo into your throat at the same time.

Sleep at night with a dildo or buttplug in your mouth.

Suck cock in public.

Film yourself sucking cock, then suck him while watching a video of yourself gagging and crying.

Talk to your girlfriends about cocksucking.

Throatfuck yourself with a dildo in public.

Come up with new ideas! You're a slut, act like one.

- Erin -

I'm a young kinky male switch, living up in Northeast Wyoming after moving from Florida a little while ago. Before the move, I had been meeting with someone on a regular basis, and I was heavily exploring (and heavily enjoying) my submissive interests. At first, I was being pushed to improve myself. Unfortunately, that pushing started to go further, beginning with simple encouragement to try something I didn't really want to try, eventually reaching the point that it was leaps and bounds beyond anything we discussed for even CNC. I have always had, and always will have, one line that cannot be crossed, which is that I won't do anything which carries a significant risk of being arrested. Well, that line got crossed pretty hard at the beach one day. We would go to the beach with a couple of other kink friends each weekend. One submissive would be chosen as the group slave for the day, while the other submissives and switches relaxed with everyone else. This entailed the usual getting food, drinks, and keeping everyone happy, though it also often meant being humiliated in public, in a variety of ways. Once the beach started clearing off, the tradition was to send the slave into the water, or under a pier, with someone (usually a dominant or switch, but not always) to accompany them. The other person would humiliate the slave out there, sometimes even make them strip and go towards other swimmers (but keeping everything hidden under the water). One day, it was my turn. The beach stayed crowed later than normal, but we were almost ready to go. I was sent out, along with the person I was seeing, and the usual humiliation took place. I knew it was about to get worse, though, from a look in their eyes. Well, rather than being told to take the suit off, I had it ripped off. I then watched while they got out of the water, still carrying my suit, and sat back down with everyone. At that point, it was terrible and humiliating, and I loved it. They sent a bunch of people I had never seen before to where I was,, with instructions that I let them enjoy me. That was something new to me, but nobody ever asked if it was okay. Fortunately, I absolutely loved it, it is easily in the top 5 things I want to do again, more on that later. Things went bad pretty quick, starting just before that group left. All but 1 got out,, and that 1 made me get out and go under the pier. I was in plain view for just a second, and I was still super turned on by the group that I went, even though I wasn't okay with it. My group brought some rope and a blindfold, bound me to a post so I couldn't move, and blindfolded me so I couldn't see. I tried to make it stop, using safe words and signs from both private play and group play, so they gagged me with a wire gag. I was fucked through the gag and in the ass, with everything imaginable from cocks to strapons and other toys to (I think) food. There were both guys and girls there, but I didn't recognize all the voices. I lost count of how many loads I received, but my face was covered so much globs began falling onto my chest, and filled my ass until it was dripping down my leg. The blindfold was taken off and I was untied from the post, once everyone but my group left. My hands were immediately tied behind my back, leaving me covered in cum with no way to wipe it off. I saw someone grab my suit, figuring they would bring it to me, since people were still on the beach. Unfortunately, that didn't happen. Instead, they showed it to me, then took it home. I can't get mad at him though, he was told he could take it as a souvenir. That's when I knew I had to walk away, it had gone way too far that day, and the worst hadn't come yet. When we finally left, they made me walk 3 blocks back to the car while naked, arms tied, and cum covered. After that, I decided to take a hiatus, which led me to end up in Wyoming.

Don't misunderstand me, there were a lot of things I enjoyed. Actually, most of what happened that day I look forward to doing again, hopefully soon. If, instead of a normal beach, we went somewhere that nudity, sex, and kink were permitted in public, and if I was asked before new things were done to me, that day would have been some of the best fun I ever had. But, since some lines were crossed to the point that I could no longer trust any of them, I took a break. The good news is that break is over, and I am trying to meet people. But, since CL shut down personals and the kink community in my new town is very underground, I'm having trouble finding anybody with similar interests. If you know any sites, places in my area to go, or if you are near me, let me know. Hell, I have a hotel room to myself tonight, so maybe you can come over or we can do something online. I'm up for almost anything on either side of switching, with guys, girls, or even a group.

My confession was that I never fucked jail bait when i was in college. Chasing too many big titted coeds to even pay attention to a soft firm high school freshmen, so no idea what a freshman virgin feels like. Something tells me the first few thursts makes a man want to cum harder than he ever has, smooth flawless skin, little fur on the field but most of all being that first blow job she will ever give. Maybe a little rough and slow, but over time helping her improve. I never cared about it until my mid 20's, but by than nine eleven happened and cops made more of a point to bust guys scoping teenager girls at the mall. Back in the 80's to mid late 90's you could still get away with a piece of strange from a girl who feels 'misunderstood' and thinks she is too 'mature (lol)' for high school boys. God Bless the teenage sluts who love cock and can't get enough of it, who of us hasn't been to a public pull and notice some tan thin ripe girls walking around in skimpy suits and thongs? They know your looking , so they tease you by 'dropping things' and bending over slowly, watching that bikini bottom and virgin hole for the briefest of moments. When I was young, there was a 13 yr girl would used to sun bath naked in her backyard when her parents were out (they worked every day). She would walk out with her radio tape deck, in either her red, yellow, or green bikini. The red one was my favorite, she white with a tan,long black hair she had in a pony tail, green eyes, long toned legs, sweet pair of supple breasts with pointy nipples. After about ten minutes she would run inside, check around outside than strip to the song LOVEFOOL . Sweet Christ her body makes my cock throb even now, the sweat pouring off her skin. Sometimes, (very rare) she would would spread her legs and play with herself. The hotter it caught out side the pace of her rubbing would get faster and when she came she did it hard. For nearly the whole summer she would spend her days sun bathing and playing with her pussy. Until the fate filled day she brought her little boyfriend over, she stripped and started to play with her pussy while he was in the pool. She asked him if he wanted to touch her and believe it or not the little cunt boyfriend started to cry, than he ran into the house. Not sure what happened but she never sunbathed the rest of the summer. too bad i was always hoping she would invite another girl over to join in her fun, whats worse was video camera's cost like $600.00 back than and i didnt know anyone i could borrow one from.

I have been a member of this site for 7 years, and for another bunch of years before that when it was called something else--anyone remember that? hmmm-I can't recall the old name. It'll come to me.
anyway, while searching around the other day, i typed in something like "young teen" or maybe something like "very young"--I was looking to see how young they try to make these girls look. You know! like when they are 42 years old and act like they are 10--pigtails and braces on a tired, c-grade milf--and it's called: "stacey's bedtime story for daddy"--she's 42! Who's believing this?..it's weird.
So, I was surfing around and I must have done something wrong because I got this quick message that stated something like
"BAD!!!that was an unacceptable search word and a notification has been made ...
I'm not sure what it said, but it freaked me out!
I've seen alot of bullshit on this site, things I do not want to see--they seem to have finally gotten rid of things like... women sucking dogs fucking shit covered corpses while getting their heads shot off--I used to complain about that stuff!!
or... fake Pictures of nude 8 year olds. Or... Just plain death! those delightful pictures of people suffocated and hanging. or... even better, bloody shreds in the middle of a road...very hot.
(there have been improvements on the horse fucking front--Death still seems to linger. hmmmmmm.)
Anyway, I am afraid I'm now on some bad porn guy list. After all these years, I'm thinking of bailing. This and one other site are the only ones I ever go to in all these years because there is a lot of material and it seems/ seemed free from bullshit. I am as middle of the road as you go. yet I somehow triggered something somewhere for the first time ever.
(I'm blocking on the original Motherless site name.)
Wait!! Hide Behind???
Is this not a good place to be anymore?
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