Restaurant etiquette

After having worked in and patronized restaurants for many years, I've noticed a decay in the behavior considered to be "acceptable." As a result, I've decided to outline what is included in proper restaurant etiquette for those ill-informed individuals who continually bend the boundaries.

SERVICE INTERACTION:
-When your server greets you and asks how you are, "coke" is not an acceptable answer. Servers are people too, and by asking how you are, a waiter is simply attempting to engage. Be human. Answer.
- Waiters and waitresses are not less intelligent than you because of where they work. Many times, they are college students who are extremely intellectual. As a result, they are well aware of your assonance. Don't make yourself look like and idiot. Be kind.
-If your food has been poorly prepared, then please, by all means, send it back. But, if you forgot to specify something or if you just don't like what you chose, it is not the responsibility of the waiter or waitress to make your mistake correct.

TIPPING:
- TIPPING IS NOT OPTIONAL. Period. Generally speaking servers make far less than minimum wage and depend on your gratuity for their income. If you don't tip, your are thieving the services you have received. You cannot choose weather or not to pay for something you have purchased, and would not expect to leave the supermarket without paying. So, pay for the service you have received. *Additionally, most servers tip busboys and other staff based on their nightly sales. As a result, your presence at a table will cost a server money. This means if you do not leave a tip, you are literally stealing from the person who served you- they will still have to pay money for your check.
-Acceptable tipping rates include: 15% or your check (before discounts) for standard service, and 20% for good service. Occasionally, for excellent service, you may decide to leave more. You should never leave less than these amounts unless you have a serious complaint with the service you received.
-Factors that should not negatively influence the amount of tip you leave include: the quality or quantity of food, the condition of the restaurant, weather or not you liked your food, how much your bill amounted to, or atmosphere. Servers cannot control these things. It's not their fault if you don't like your burger.
-If you stay at a table for an extended period of time, you should increase the amount of tip you leave. Servers make their money by serving tables. So, if you are occupying a table for an extended period of time, you are preventing them from making money. Tip appropriately.
-If you can't afford to tip, get take-out. Most restaurants offer this option. Times are tough for everyone, including the servers.

GENERAL BEHAVIOR:
-Talking loudly on your cell phone is disruptive to other patrons. Your call is not more important than other people's enjoyment.
-If there is a wait to be seated, you must wait to be seated. This is a lesson of kindergarten. You cannot cut in line simply because you "don't feel like waiting," or because you "have somewhere to be." Everyone else feels the same way you do.
-Noise levels should be kept to an appropriate indoor level for a public place.
-Profanity is disruptive. Avoid it.
-Vulgar stories should be shared at a low volume.
-Feel free to share positive experiences with staff along with negative ones. It is nice to hear good things, too.
-PAY YOUR CHECK. Restaurants remember you, and stealing is stealing.

I hope this information is helpful, and will promote good behavior.

I have seen many sites and profiles.
If someone on their profile is happy wanting another to do this an many other things like males giving all they have to worship a dominate female working all day and pleasing all night caring for her and her every wish then why is there no one to match me forever?

I can not treat who I love the way profiles and all I see treats someone nor can I be done to like I see and read...

If someone submissive in all the ways there are but wants to be hurt, degraded,dominated,used, and so on, why is there not someone who will care for all my needs and wishes and pleasing me all the ways I ask and want and everything but I care for them and love them also.

The dedication and loyal giving to only one and getting nothing but pain and all that is sad to me...

If someone were to protect me,care for me,want to be and do all I dream and worship all of me inside,out and soul.... Well, By my nature I care for and love them deeply without all that so it would be a dream if they deeply wanted to be all they are to a dominate but being loved also by me should be enough right?

For someone who will do anything and be loyal and care for everything because they dream to and want to as they love someone that way should find love in return right?

I am not like porn or profiles show and ask for.

I do have many desires and special things few wish to share but with others hating and so on they keep it to them self forever.. If someone respects someones rights, never takes from others and does nothing unless all are sure thats fine each time, Then I have much to share and they can tell me anything they always thought about and wonder of...

We can read and explore many things shared together...

I can guide them and help be someone they can talk to about anything they need to run by another first.

I can guide many things if they trust me to care and never take any risks or do harm.

I make better company than many.

I try to bring a silly and happy atmosphere to who I care for.

I cheer them up if I can.

They can tell me all their fears and I will never use them in any way.

I am a gentle lover who is thought full and wants to know what someone feels and thinnks.

The submissive male who gives all to a dominate woman is an example...

If they could worship me as they would them And I show love and caring in return for all they do just for me and loves doing it, Can that be enough?

Giving all to another who will not a_buse that trust and share all with them....

Why not pick me over others?

I wish what I have to offer would make a submissive want to do all and even love it more knowing I will be warm,loving and caring of them and want to truly share life and not just take from them and have no shared interest's in every day life and the very special time also....

Just as they hope they can please and be all they can for someone, I hope they are even more eager as they see a giving being can be better..

Just as they need to hold and show love to me and do all for me, I want them to feel it is good they found me to be that way to me.

To protect me, love me, care for all of me, do for me, give me a safe and secure life I never fear and they truly do love and want to do it all forever as they are deeply and forever in love with me brings that love in me for them out.

An example?

They would not be the only one just any time as they are wanting to, giving oral to share time and show love.

Never take, always ask. I will give to someone who places me and all I am before them.

I am too afraid to ask in my profile if there is someone out there who has passed over all others as they just want to be loved for being submissive and worshiping who they love.

Look at all the people and the life they ask for wanting to be less than human for someone and used like trash..

Why can one person wish and hold on to hope to find the one like me?

I would love someone who truly wants to be what others wish for to me.
I hope they waited looking for someone they know being their first and only to worship and give them self to and are glad they did and found me.

I have so much to share and desires I hope they love to be a part of and share...
What ever they do I dream and ask for will not be a waste.
I love who loves me that much to be my everything.