I have a long time female friend, who I have known since hs. We were neighbors as well, and we really were, and still are, great friends. I was kind of interested in her, since she was cute and all, but got friend zoned pretty quickly, so I gave up on it, and didn't try to pursue that any further.
One night, after hs, we just graduated, we were out in the club, and after coming back to her place, since her folks weren't home, I decided to sleep there. We were talking, and I complained how horny I am, and still without a girl. Out of the blue, she offered me a blow job. I thought she was joking, and if I wasn't drunk, I would do nothing, but since booze gave me courage, I unbuttoned my pants and she did it.
That was a shock for me, a nice one, so I thought something of it, that wasn't there, tried to repeat that next week, and she snubbed me with "I am not your whore".
So, I stopped my advances, for a while, thought it was a one time drunk thing, but maybe six months later, we were in a similar situation, I complained again, and she did it again.
So I got the method, that only solidified through time - it had to sound genuine, and I had to pick my moments, depending on her mood, but after a while, I would get bjs from her, pretty often. How often? I don't know, at that time, maybe once or twice a month. Then, she got a bf, and I figured, that is done, but after a long pause, I tried it, once again, and it worked.
We have been doing this, for the past 20 something years. She knows my wife, and I know her husband, we spend time together, our kids are friends, and, obviously, since we got married, it happens way less, but it still happens. And she swallowed every single time.
Two hottest occasions were:
1.Two days before her wedding.
2.When she was in the late stage of pregnancy.
We never talked about it, only through joking, I am not complaining, but I still haven't figured out her thoughts on this, or why she does it.
