My family works "under-the-table" for cash and as hispanics that's not a surprise. In june my uncle sent my cousin his daughter maria the hottest one out of all her sisters, basically the one everyone wants to fuck, to come work with us as punishment because she dropped out of her g.e.d adult learning school. She's petite, decent body but her face is gold, it belongs on a magazine cover. One random day she surprisingly started coming to work earlier so after a week I started coming earlier too to try my luck with her but instead I ran into her getting plowed by our cracker boss in his office who's like 6'5 and she's barely 5 feet tall. He had her pinned down in doggystyle, all I saw was some ass motion until he lifted up her work dress and pulled out. His cock was ridiculously pale white and long, he stroked it a few times and got hard again then put it back in her which only went in like 4 inches before she began to struggle. Her face was red and her veins were coming out all over her neck and forehead, she didn't like it and kept stopping. They were getting dress when he told her he had to go to the atm to pay her but she didn't even answer him. I woke up at 3:30am for over a month just to see her get pounded by that monster and this one morning about 20 minutes into it he was plowing her from behind when she turned around and stared at him then turned back and slowly began moaning. They stopped fucking and started makingout, for so fucking long that workers started checking in, he gave his phone number to her and just sent her out. I don't see them fuck in his office anymore I'm sure they meet up though but I still check once in a while and one time I saw him casually getting head from this stupid black lady that always comes in late. We have this cute little blonde working with us who ran away from home and just turned 18 so I stayed late peeking through his window and saw her sitting there with him nervously and eventually he talked her into giving him head, it was short but hot she was spitting out cum bubbles and stroking him at the same time. God knows how many female workers he's fucked with, he's the reason why I want to be the boss.

This is an actual, true event that happened to my then-wife back in the mid-1990s. She was a peroxide blonde, natural brunette, average 34C tits, 5'2", tight, round ass, slim, petite build, she works in a solicitor's office, I'm around 5'10", muscular build, but not such a long cock, 5 and a half inches, but very thick, I'm balding, I work in a gym as a trainer, any how after 2 years of marriage and what i thought was a great sex life. I found out my wife had been cheating on me with her solicitor boss, who happened to be my school nemesis; he was always trying to steal my girlfriends at school and backstabbing me; I never found out why. Now I find out he is fucking my wife, all fell into place, the late nights, the working away on cases, now we never had anal sex, she insisted it was an exit only, nothing going in, only out.
Fast forward a few months after I found out, and I confronted them at some charity bash in an extremely posh hotel. Both were so embarrassed, my wife ran off in tears, he was red-faced in front of clients and his bosses,
I left after my wife confessed all and said it happened by accident, she was dr*nk, and he came on to her, she felt his massive cock against her, the drink took over, and that's how it started, but the crafty guy had recorded her giving a blow job and him fucking her from behind.
I soon learnt what she told me was complete lies.
So I set her up a fancy dress face mask, etc It was a rubber fetish party that my mate set up for a bachelor stag party, only 2 women were to be present, my wife, who cheated on me, and my mate's wife, who had also cheated on him. Perfect set up, 20 plus guys were invited, the 2 wives were in crutchless rubber suits, gim masks, we had laced their drinks, and they were almost out of it before all the guys arrived at the venue, both wives had their hands handcuffed behind their backs and O ball gags in their mouths, and were lay on a king sized mattress on the stage, we cut holes in the rubber suits to get their tits out and we put nipple clamps on both, an hour in we drew back the curtain to the stage and told the guys they could do what ever they wanted sexually to these to willing ladies, they may fight but thats all part of the act, i said and pointed to my wife she a particular liking to getting fucked in her ass deep and hard, and loved her nipples and clit being twisted hard, my mate said his wife was alwways up for anything especially being air tight, we left the guys we had set up recording equipment everywhere and had 2 guys recording close ups for us, we stayed by the bar enjoying our combined revenge, after 3-4 hours of both wives having every hole fucked silly full of 20 plus loads of cum , we called a holt to things the guys joined us at the bar we re-drew the curtain left the wives laying alone cum socked, everyone left early hours we returned to collect the wives 8-9 the next morning they were where we left them, we uncuffed them took them to the shower room, my wife's ass looked like a baboons ass, big open red raw, my mates wife, was livid asked why , but fast forwards we both landed up single divorced but no cheating wives any more

After a bad breakup and still being out of work, I started going to the gym late at night. Usually only did like an hour on the treadmill just to pass the time. I aint gonna say the name but most will know what im talking about when I say I was at one of the big gym chains that are real assholes about supposed “sexual harassment” at the gym, like they will ask you to leave if they even think your checking out someone else or looking around in the slightest.

Anyway, was there on a Thursday night around 11 since they are open 24/7. On the treadmill with my headphones in and there’s an attractive women getting on another one a few down from me; she was tall, athletic-looking, some tattoos, good sized tits, very pretty face and with a fire red dyed sidecut. I stole glances at her but try to stay focused and ignore her. She looked close to my age(late twenties).

At one point like 20 min later I thought I heard something, turned and realized she’d been talking to me. She was commenting on something on the tv screen to me, not realizing I had earbuds in. We laughed and made small talk but barely 2 min later, one of the supervisor type people came over and asked me to leave for disturbing others. Because I was chubby and not that attractive, they automatically marked me as being a problem or creep and uncomfortable for others. I argued that we were talking and she even got offended and defended me but they just wouldn’t hear it and asked that I leave. She surprisingly started to flip out on them and go off before saying WE were leaving but saying they were gonna see more.

She pulled me out, asked where my car was and was pretty happy when I pointed it out as in the front row facing the full wall windows of the gym. She told me to get in the driver’s seat and move it back while she actualy stripped off ALL her clothes, sat on my lap facing away from me and we started fucking right there in full view of everyone in the gym. Some of the few others in there got a kick out of it(since they heard what happened), others were shocked or avoided looking, but the employees were visibly pissed off, which is I guess what we were going for. As we fucked we literally made small talk and got to know each other. Turns out she lives close by, was bi and had a girlfriend but as we were doing this for a “good cause”, she didn’t think it was cheating.

About 5 min later, while we are still fucking, a cop shows up, having been called by the gym. A middle-aged lady cop comes up to the window and we roll it down while still fucking. We explain what happened and she literally breaks down laughing, saying she’d probably do the same in our position. She does nothing, lets us keep going and leaves. We finished, talk a little more, exchanged information and leave separately.

That was 5 months ago, we are close friends with benefits now and we do the same thing every late thursday night, meeting up and having sex in the car outside the gym. Sometimes we make a show of it, other times we’re more subtle and enjoy ourselves. Sometimes the gym staff leaves us alone, but still hates us, and sometimes they call the cops. The cops never do anything, either not responding or seeing us and doing nothing. Our situation is like a big joke among the police department now. its great.

I confess I'm considering cheating on my wife.

A bit (or a lot) of backstory: I've always been very shy and nerdy, not bad looking, but the total antithesis of a ladies' man. My senior year in high-school I was invited to go on a trip to Australia for a youth leadership conference. The trip was supposed to be for people finishing their first year of college, but through a mix-up I was able to go, and my parents thought it would be a good "educational" graduation gift. So I went and witnessed, without partaking, in lots of hook-ups. Our last night there we stayed at a hotel just a few blocks from Sydney's red-light district (King Street). I had a fair bit of extra cash after buying souvenirs for my family, so I was lured to a strip club. I didn't realize prostitution was legal there, and it was only a few minutes before I was lured to a private room and convinced to pay for a BJ. Right before I finished she stopped and asked if I wanted more -- in retrospect a great "marketing" tactic for that line of work. I still had some cash, but not enough - she finally agreed to do the deed, but insisted we had to be quiet or she'd get in trouble for taking such a low sum. So we did. And it was incredibly lousy. She just lay there, shirt on, didn't move a muscle, didn't make a sound. And even though I used a condom, I spent months convinced I had contracted something nasty. I must have had myself tested at clinics at least 3 times.

That was my only even-remotely sexual experience all the way through college. When I started grad school, I met a girl and we started dating -- my first girlfriend, and it didn't come until the age of 22. We quickly started into sex and a few months into it we stopped using a condom because she told me she couldn't get pregnant. Go figure--she did. She was a good Christian girl, and a total pro-lifer, so it shocked me when she was the one who decided to have the abortion. It was a hard time for her - moreso because she had been told by doctors this couldn't happen. That was only 3 months into the relationship.

I kept dating her, and eventually she started pushing me for the bling. I resisted for a long time, because aside from my one misstep in Australia, she was my only partner, and I knew I wanted more. Eventually, though, I convinced myself I could be monogamous with her, and we married about 19 months ago.

She was never petite to begin with, but she also has a problem with weight, she works out like a fiend, and eats healthier than anyone I know but the weight keeps piling on (it's part of the same condition that is supposed to prevent her from getting pregnant), though she has so far kept herself under 200 lbs, she is not skinny. On top of that, my eye has started to stray too, my confidence has gone up a whole lot, and I can see other women who are interested in me.

Since the wedding I've stopped in a few strip clubs and discovered a few that are little more than fronts for brothels. Curiosity also brought me to an AMP, though I only got an HJ, and even then only because the girl seemed so upset that I wasn't going to tip for anything extra.

This has caused me to slowly start squirreling away enough to be able to afford all the "extras" at one of these places. Just recently I met that mark. And there's a weekend coming up where my wife will be out of town. But since I hit that mark suddenly, I'm finding my libido is down, and I don't really want to do it.

I really do love my wife. I'm incredibly worried about the harm it would do if she found out, or if I did catch something. I don't want to have an affair, even an FWB thing because you never know when that other person could send you an incriminating e-mail, text, phone call, or outright try to blackmail me. But I am really sexually frustrated and I really want to experiment with more pussy. I've tried pushing the open-marriage, or swinging thing too, but she's also totally not into that.

So I know motherless is supposed to be a moral-free zone. I don't need anyone preaching to me. What I want to know is guys, (and gals) who have similar situations, what advice do you have?