Girls, ladies, women, females.. Ever wanted to know if a person who maybe 'shouldn't' be attracted to you, fantasizes about you or even desires you, actually is either 1, 2 or all 3 of those things? Ever wanted to bring up the subject or straight out ask but you can't? Or you shouldn't? Maybe it's taboo, frowned upon, not socially acceptable, risky or whatever. Ever wanted to plant a seed of thought in a persons mind to see if it would grow but are afraid of possible negative consequences if it did not?
Over the years I've learned/come up with/discovered a few little tricks that can help you out. What you do with the information you glean, whether or not you do anything at all in fact, is a totally different matter and one utterly up to your good selves but either way wouldn't it be nice just to know?
There is a lot there never happens, is never acted upon simply because it goes unsaid and as a result one person will not know how the other (others) feel/think about it. You have so much more power and influence than many of you believe. I'm not trolling or spamming or bullshitting. I'm sure even the trolls and the spammers and the bullshitters must say that but in my case it is in fact the truth. I just want to share what I know and if as a by-product a little sexual arousal should spill on me while doing it, well what's the harm.
There's a saying 'if you do not ask then the answer will always be no' but ......... you don't need to actually 'ask', instead you can Miss Marple/Jessica Fletcher/Dana Scully/Clarice Starling etc your way to the answer.
And sorry Gents, sadly we men-folk do not have as many options available to us - we mostly just need to say it out straight and then be exposed and vulnerable, at the mercy of Wonderous Womankind while awaiting their decision. If they even choose to give one that is.. (Although some may be a little applicable to bi or gay men, but not much).
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Haters are, without a shadow of a doubt, 'gonna' hate but somewhere in all the vitriol and insults and personal attacks that are most certainly going to be lobbed in my direction for posting, I know that there will be some genuine curiosity and genuine engagement.
