I've been in a wheelchair for 16 years. I didn't know in the beginning how difficult it is going to be to carry on a relationship that would be both stimulating and just not humdrum for both parties. Recently, I've met a girl and have been in a relationship with her for over year. I love her very much and she loves me. But whether it's due to her own makeup as a woman or my inabilities physically it's been difficult to make her really FEEL like a woman. I come to truly understand this because of the lack of masculinity or rather, the perceived reduction of masculinity that happens with a spinal cord injury.. More than anything, it makes you question your own woman or manhood� So it's not a far stretch to understand that for a woman to feel sexually LIKE a woman or too often at times feel sexual at all she must be taken the traditional way that a woman needs to be taken�
Women are meant to receive and man are meant to give.
Thus, innies(pussy) and outees(dicks)..
So, in effort to keep our relationship healthy and to keep her mind set healthy or her sexuality healthy & active... I set out on a search to find someone that would be appropriate to give her what she needed as a woman.
