OP is trolling and talking complete bullshit.
In a nutshell it's a game of: "Oooh, guess what I'm being walked all over by my partner and her ex, but it's ok" - then sit back and watch the predicatable "man-up" responses roll in.
If by the slenderest chance the OP is not talking bullshit then (realising this is adding to his fishing haul) his nads should be slowly pulled of with pliers for bringing his gender into disrepute.
