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Dr. Frail mentions that " You are your own critic." The answer is in the scars .

Are you crazy who wouldnt check you out even if just to make sure you weren't full of shit.I encourage people to check out strangers. BEEN VERIFIED

Hi there,

I'm also into pretty freaky kinky stuff, contact me, I don't care who you are and won't check you out, i'm sure we can have a little fun without all this mess.

trust me, you won't regret it.

Once you've given out your name, you can't get it back. Always assume the other person you're talking to WILL Google you to find out whatever there is to find. Also, I'm not sure that your contact was entirely clear on the trust thing. In the future, make sure to spell out in no uncertain terms what you expect him to do/not do. Vague Disclaimers Are No Ones Friend.

You're right, plain and simple. Just because someone can Google doesn't mean they should. Here's hoping that you find a gentleman in your future.

Trust becomes rust. Gotta keep polishing the metal to keep it clean.

What are your kinks? You should try collarme or fetlife. I'm on both.

Slap yourself...REALLY. k

^ hmm..We can all learn without discretion. Too many people follow false hope.

Really? I mean, really, really!?

I would have googled, and expected you to do the same, purely for safety reasons.
And I don't think the word 'privacy' applies to stuff on the interweb that anyone can find.

(not slagging you off, just completely unable to understand your point of view)

Did you at any point make him aware of your preferences? And I agree with the other posters, if I meet a stranger off the internet and they tell me that 1) they've been on tv and 2) their name is (name here), then unless I've been explicitly instructed not to look this person up, I'm going to look her/him up.

An invasion of privacy would detail something like stalking someone on Facebook and finding out where they live, what they like, what movies they watch. Googling a public tv channel appearance strikes me more as a matter of curiosity than anything. If you were so concerned about keeping that shit private then don't disclose specifics when you don't have to!

Lady its the nature of the game. I have several riends that ive been meeting for years but we did the introduce game for along time.i.e. chatting on phone and
such. I value our time together and friendship better them some of
the girls i might actually have relationships. I think its called vetting though
a strange word to apply to the internet

You're too paranoid. Anyone who says they wouldn't Google you is full of shit just in the hopes you'll talk to them.

To even care is stupid. Think of how many people give out their Facebook instead of their number or email. Would it then be an invasion of privacy to go looking that their Facebook?

I quit reading after 4 or 5 paragraphs. Was there a point?

Only a fucking idiot doesn't check on people before meeting them. Thanks Google, both for compromising our privacy and helping us to keep it at the same time.

privacy is a very sensitive issue.
HOWEVER, googling someone is in no way breach of privacy. It's like 50 years ago when people would go around and ask about a person from those who knew him/her. now it has become faster and easier, like Everything else.

Don't give out your real name. give a fake name, but if you want more contact, give them your real phone number. even set a date, still with that fake name. That name wouldn't change anything apart from giving them the ability to look you up, and you know that too. So in case you don't want them to search for you, don't give out your real name.

Personally, I wouldn't date someone if they tell me their name and ask me not to search for them in the Internet. That's so awkward.

yep think about actually after the deed is done, what then .that must suck sometimes ,i never gave any real thought how that would fuck up a sex life ,i always thought it would help it out ,but then again lots of creeps n control freaks out here ,good luck ,and what you think as kink to you, may be perfect for others. im from vegas, ladies just rent what they want out here, no questions asked have fun