Sometimes when my wife is out of town I get the urge to search Craigslist and browse the local casual encounters and think of all the casual sex I could be having. I've been married less than a year but she has gained some weight and has been an abusive wife. So I am ready to say screw it. And move on to someone else.
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08 Aug 2012 12:44AM
Hey, I do the same thing...browse craigslist and other sites. Been lucky a few times. I know what you mean.
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08 Aug 2012 12:48AM
OP here: what other sites? Once or twice I see the "no strings attached" and i just really want to send that person an email. And get it over with. Stupid conscience tells me no.
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08 Aug 2012 2:06AM
She suddenly became overweight and abusive in less than a year's time? I call major self-serving bullshit.
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08 Aug 2012 2:35AM
Yeah, despite what the anti-adultery moralfags on here say (who are just jealous because hey don't have the skills to pull chicks on the side), banging strange doesn't have to hurt anybody or ruin your marriage. Just be discreet, don't rub your wife's face in it, and avoid psycho bitches who get too attached.
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08 Aug 2012 8:19AM
OP here: she was fit when we met, and since then she gained about 30-35 pounds since then. But she was all like "let's not move in together before we are married". Well, you learn allot about a woman when you live with her. She has gotten crazier. Just last week she has been going psycho and she got a prescription for anti- anxiety pills. And has been waking me up in the middle of the night thinking she is getting bitten by bed bugs, when we don't have any we had to pay $300 for a guy to come in to say that we didn't have any, and she still thinks they are in the bed. And she just calls me up in the middle of the work day, screams at me over the phone over something completely stupid and where I did nothing wrong but still blames me. So she's a bitch. It has slowly started to get worse and worse. She can't go a single day ( and she tried) without yelling at me.
The only up side is that she is great in bed.
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09 Aug 2012 12:46AM
When I was reading this, I was struck by the fact that it's a textbook description of how a crystal meth addict behaves. The only thing that doesn't add up is the weight gain, but I still would give serious consideration to the possibility that you married a junkie and didn't know it.
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08 Aug 2012 9:33AM
The crazy ones are sexual napalm, but you can't get that shit off your skin when you need to...
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08 Aug 2012 4:19PM
Same feelings here, but can never find anyone on CL
-RKT-
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08 Aug 2012 4:57PM
dude, CL is full of spammers and fakes. if you want a hookup, go to backpage, AFF or ashley madison.
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08 Aug 2012 5:10PM
Avoid CL. The crazy ones are always better in bed. That's a known known. This would be why after my last long term relationship ended I am on a strictly "catch and release" system until someone shows they're amazing and reliable over a LONG period and is willing to wait and deal with me fucking other girls while she does. Life is too short to put up with mean women. Period.
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09 Aug 2012 12:38AM
Try Asian Massage Parlors (AMPs) Check rubmaps.com for a good one near you.
If you find the right one, they will fuck you for the right tip. (Full Service (FS))
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09 Aug 2012 7:27PM
OP here: Thanks for the posts & limitspushed. my wife feels the same way, she is ashamed of her body, but I still love it. It is just her low self esteem. Searching personal ads is just a fantasy. I know what is was like too when I have been cheated on.
