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23 Apr 2018 6:12PM
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Hey guys so question

ok so i'm 18 and really want to get into BDSM but i have no idea where to start so i guess my question would be were would be the best place to find a teacher not a master slave relationship but a mutual one where someone teaches me about the life so i can decide weather i want to be a master or a slave i don't mind whether it's a man or a woman i am straight but since i'm going to be learning i don't think gender matters i'm based in the midlands in the uk specifically in Worcester but i can travel to Birmingham

please get in touch if you have any suggestions

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23 Apr 2018 8:29PM

Luv to help but unfortunately I;m in Glasgow

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23 Apr 2018 8:36PM

it's fine thankyou for responding at least i really appreciate it

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24 Apr 2018 4:22AM

Like a couple other people have said, fetlife is a great start. When you get there find a local munch. It's slang for a group get together within the community. A lot of them aren't even specifically about participation in actual bdsm so they are great for newbies to approach experienced people with questions. If you have more questions feel free to inbox me

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25 Apr 2018 8:21AM

Fetlife is a great option these days. It wasn't around when I got started.

I had the old fashioned way of "looking for a girl scout who is similarly inclined."

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27 Apr 2018 6:56AM

if you make a real account here you'll find a lot of guys into kink or go to fet life

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28 Aug 2021 8:40PM

Hey I'm in south Birmingham if your'e still around?

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04 Jul 2025 1:29AM

Does anyone know a dirty slut teacher from Warrington Cheshire called Mrs laverack 

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