Men, what is it about treating a woman like a whore during sex that gets you off? Ever since we got married my husband has been slapping me a lot and calling me things like a “dumb fucking bitch” during sex, and he just keeps getting rougher, but I really love him so I’m trying to understand why. I figured sites like this might help.
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23 May 2023 12:02PM
I have been thinking the same thing evey post on here is about how would you use this bitch or what would you do to her...there is a time a place for some knock down drag it out fucking but it's not all the time and only if both are into it. I enjoy my wife just getting on top and ridding the shit out of my cock and watching her rits bounce...call me vanilla if you want but there is a time for kinks and rough stuff but if that's the only thing that gets you off...there might be ans issue
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23 May 2023 2:42PM
If it's not something that you both had already discussed as far as likes/dislikes and he's just going off all of a sudden, then I don't know what to tell you. Sounds like you actually need to sit down and talk about it. I don't think you're going to find the answer on here, unfortunately. This site is mostly fantasy. Whatever anything anyone says (even the most extreme) are very unlikely to be taken and applied the same in the real world.
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23 May 2023 3:36PM
That shit ain’t normal. You married an asshole.
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24 May 2023 12:44PM
This is something you should talk to him about. There's probably a whole host of reasons for this, but here's some off the top of my head.
1. He has a kink for degrading people playing into a desire for power or something similar. As long as this is a kink and doesn't lead into actions outside of the bedroom and as long as it's consensual, it's fine.
2. He's interpreted something you did as liking that. If you don't, that's something to let him know.
3. He's just repeating what sorts of things he heard in porn, thinking that's just how people talk.
As a side note, I'd encourage you to look at the youtube channel Sexplanations. It handles topics in a nice, nonjudgemental way. It's really easy when reading stories like this for the internet to be like "he's abusing you!" when it's often more complex. But just because it's complex doesn't mean it shouldn't be talked about.
I'd also recommend you both fill out a "want, will, won't" list. Just google that and you'll probably find a decent one.
