This is the dumbest shit I have ever read. This is why I hate muslims and can't stand islam. They're a bunch of bullshit artists that speak SHIT.

Question: Why can muslim men have as much women as they want and women be denied this same benefit?
Answer: Women get the same benefit but not in this life. Only in the next life. Praise Allahbaba.

http://www.islamweb.net/womane/nindex.php?page=showfatwa&FatwaId=83959

Question:
I don't mean to sound like a disbeliever, but scholars always speak of the reward for men in heaven how they will have "Hour al-'Een". How can a man can keep more than one wife? What's in it for women? I believe Allah to be a Just and Fair God. I just want to understand. If there are any books you recommend I would be grateful. I need to learn more because I feel that the way Islam is preached nowadays is undeserving to God. There are so many misconceptions and preachings that make you want to turn away from Islam. Allah is a kind God, Tender and Gentle with His worshippers. Where is all this meanness and bad presentations coming from?

Answer:
Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the World; and may His blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his Family and Companions.

One has to believe that Allah, The Great and Almighty, is Just, Generous Affectionate, Wise and All-Knowing. He does what He likes and chooses; no one has the right to review or rebut His Orders. So, He, in His Wisdom, has chosen that a man can marry four women, not the opposite. Here, only those who have faith and insight can recognize the wisdom behind such a ruling.
He has decreed that a believer can take delight in a number of al-Hour al-'Een (dark-eyed damsels), while a believing woman only loves her husband and wants nobody but him.
Allah Says (interpretation of meaning): {And with them will be chaste females, restraining their glances (desiring none except their husbands), with wide and beautiful eyes. [37:48].
You have to know that there are no unmarried people in Paradise. A woman who was spinster or her husband was not from the people of Paradise will be given a husband and rewarded with Divine blessings and bliss, that no a human being can imagine.
In addition, know that there is no similarity between affairs of this life and those of the Hereafter.
In other words, a woman may wish to have more than one husband in this world, but she will not have such a desire in the Hereafter, i.e. in the Paradise, since her delight lies in having only one husband, without wishing a substitute.
This, in fact, shows completeness of the Divine wisdom, His ability and kindness.
Thus, a Muslim is advised to seek from this Present Life what leads him/her to the Paradise. In simple words, he/she does not have to be engaged with such matters (discussed in this Fatwa) that cannot be changed.
If Allah honors him/her with entering the Paradise, he/she will see what no eye has ever seen, hear what no ear has ever heard and what no one can imagine.
We ask Allah to make us and you from the people of His Paradise and favor.
Allah knows best.

To start this off, this is part confession, partly a question I have been asking myself.

I am no stranger to kinky stuff, me being here can stand as proof for that fact.

I had an interesting sex life, few partners on the long run, few of them in short term, and I considered myself pretty open to anything, not being prude, etc. In the last few years, I guess, age has caught up with me, and men dried out, then I met him.

Kind, charming, highly respected professional in his field, good earner, we hit it off in an instance. Never married, ten years older than me, so in his late 40s, everything around him screamed "playboy". I didnt care.

I thought it will be something short, but it turned out into a serious relationship, and he might even pop the question, the dream I lost quite a few years back, thinking I will end up an old spinster.

Now we come to the interesting part - he is fixated on anal, in every shape and form. He rimmed me first time we slept together, and he has been doing it frequently ever since. We have anal sex so often, that I buy home enema kits dozen at the time, and even I started rimming him, after he was being so persuasive and stubborn to get it.

Don't get me wrong, he is very good at what he is doing, I am no prude, but I did anal only once before, and did't like it. But he made me like it, and I have no objection in that regard, he always makes sure I get my needs met.

But still, my dilemma is - is it normal not to have vaginal sex, or to have it once or twice a month, while having sex every other day?

Is it healthy to commit to a man who is 24/7 dedicated to getting inside me, in a certain way? Is he broken, or am I just a prude in disguise?

I'm 44, divorced 4 years. And I confess I have found the best way to get regular, good pussy. (I made this discovery while I was married, and it may be part of why I'm divorced now).

I'll regularly go out of town, and book a room at a hotel with a big conference center, usually midweek. If there's a conference there, there's a good shot I'll find a woman who's ready to play.

I'll usually head down to the hotel bar around 10 or 10:30. The conference goers have been drinking since 8 or so, whenever their dinner lets out. So they're already drunk, and the reasonable ones are heading upstairs. The ones who are left behind are looking for something. Sometimes I'll just drink alone and make eyes at the likely prospects. Sometimes I act like my friends stood me up by tapping at my phone and looking exasperated. You'd be amazed how often they approach me when I do that.

There are 4 different types of women that I've had success with.

My favorite are the married moms. They're usually under-sexed, starved for attention, and just so happy to be away from home, they go wild. If they're DTF, they're also looking for something discreet anyways.

Then there are the divorcees. They're a little harder to snag - usually they're in the dating pool for something serious, and their guard is always on high. BUT - the divorcees I've had are totally shameless in bed.

I've had two hookups with spinsters (middle-aged women who never married). One was dumpy, but the other still had a really toned hot body. I haven't really figured this group out, but you definitely see them out.

The last ones are the office bunnies. These are the chicks that are still in their 20s and dating around. They don't always go do conferences, but if they do, they still know how to stay out late and drink. So they'll usually help close down a bar, and I've had a few who have been VERY into going back upstairs with an older guy.

I'm not sure if anyone else has discovered this life hack, or if it'll help any of you out there, but I wanted to share.

I love how only on this site will overweight spinsters be referred to as "teens".

Very funny, I appreciate the comedic gesture.

This is not the most exciting confession, but after a long drought, it is a big deal for me.

I am divorced, 45 and I had a thing with my, also divorced, neighbor. Now a thing, is a blow job, but after almost two years without anything, I am over the moon.

Not much to tell. She used to be this tall, slim blonde, not really pretty, but far from being unattractive. When he moved out, she slowly started to look like a spinster (she is my age, maybe a year or two younger) ,stopped dying her hair, gained a few pounds etc. We started talking in the hallway, then I made her a friendly dinner, then binging TV shows became a thing, and we would snuggle, and I don't know, I guess she wanted it too.

Last night we watched a movie, snuggled under a blanket, and she felt my hard on. Smirked, commented something like "you pervert", but proceeded to play with it through my pants. I did the unbuttoning, and she took it in her hand, gave me another snarky comment, and went down. You can imagine, I didn't need much, warned her about cumming, but she continued and I unloaded an ungodly amount of cum in her mouth. She didn't swallow, but spit it all back over my cock and crotch. When she got up, I leaned for a kiss, but she had some cum on her chin, so she backed off, and went to the bathroom. We did kiss afterwards, I wanted to repay her, but she said that she is on he period, and that she looks forward to the next weekend.

This morning I texted her, first thing, to arrange another movie night tonight, at my place. She responded with - YES!!!! Guys, I hope I have something here.

Anal training, I'm obsessed

Here comes another insight into my horny mind. I hope you'll enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed typing it up and playing with myself.

There is something magical about anal. Maybe it really is the "taboo" part, or maybe it is the fact that it requires some "work". Whatever it is, it feels so good to have something in my ass.

Lately I've been obsessed with anal. I'm still pretty new to it, I basically have only had a finger in my ass during sex so far. Then for quite some time I've enjoyed to play with my ass with a small dildo.

Lately it's been almost the only thing I want to do; fuck my ass. I've switched to a dildo a little bigger than my "starter anal toy", which doesn't go deep due to the shape. My current toy can be inserted much deeper. It's still pretty small though, I'd say about the size of a man's finger in width, but longer than a finger.

I've been getting more and more hungry for it. It feels so good to tease my spinster, to ever so slowly push the tip in and out for a long time before I'll finally let the toy slip in past the entrance.

I've been getting better, too. I've been pushing the dildo in deeper and deeper, slowly fucking myself with it. Letting it rest in my ass for extended times to let my asshole get used to being open. I don't know why, but it's making me so wild. I cum so easily just from fucking my asshole a little.

I just wish it didn't have to be me to use the toy. It would be so much more fun to have you use the toy on me. To train my ass, to show me who's in charge. To maybe fuck my pussy while you train my ass. And to gradually go bigger and bigger in toy size so that one day you can fuck me in the ass. A place where no dick has been so far.