A question for Sadistic people here, but not the fake abusive so called Sadistic Dom's. Maybe some self aware people are here, let's test it out..
The question- You know the moment where your masochist misses you and it brings some pain feeling that hunger, but she also enjoys that hunger, and then in that moment she craves mercy because it touched something similar but new sensation in her. What's more tasty for a Sadist, just keeping her hungry or letting little mercy in order to explore new twisted sensation?
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Oh side note, if what makes her want the mercy is something even more masochist..
I'm the rare combination that you're asking about. I'm a sexual sadist and also a psychotherapist. I stopped doing therapy and did not renew my license when I realized that as a sadist, any tension, discomfort, anguish, agony, unrequited need that I can exploit in others feeds my ego and dominance. It doesn't need to be in a BDSM session with a pain sub. That manipulation and control is a source of satisfaction. The more manipulation and control that can be had, the better. If it cannot be immediately sexualized, then whatever is most distressing will do.
It’s a fine line of hungry and seeing the limits she can reach. Always want to feel a craving deep inside so she thinks of more and is willing to push the limits.
Explore it further. Safe words exist. Unless it's something with the potential to permanently harm
let her starving a bit more and then feed her enough but only so much she is still hungry and not satisfied. keep her on that line, hungry, begging and eating.
did you ever had hunger and eating something but still hungry after that?
Depends - but I generally lean towards building the craving and then releasing it. I always take a request for mercy at face value. So if she is asking for mercy and offering something even more valuable down the road of sadism/masochism. Then it’s a win/win, and I would certainly go for it.
In our darkest hours we crave what we can not have.
Can I see what you are working, then I will tell how you would need to be used
This would depend on the both of us. I do enjoy inflectingb pain, but i also enjoy trying new sensation with her also. It is throuhmgh experimentation that we both find what we love.